sea: avoid dangling CLI option pointers

[Archkon]

Reserve exec argv storage before inserting configured and CLI-expanded arguments so vector reallocation cannot invalidate pointers in argv.

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/single-executable

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 90.15%. Comparing base (4a5eb1c) to head (b043f5e).
⚠️ Report is 156 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main   #64755   +/-   ##
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  Coverage   90.15%   90.15%           
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  Files         744      744           
  Lines      242517   242517           
  Branches    45688    45693    +5     
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+ Hits       218642   218648    +6     
- Misses      15358    15360    +2     
+ Partials     8517     8509    -8     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_sea.cc	89.53% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 23 files with indirect coverage changes

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[Archkon]

@avivkeller Could you apply request-ci for this ?

[Archkon]

@anonrig @jasnell Could you apply request-ci fot this ?

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/75500/