Lift patchelf pin

[jaimergp]

Description

• Closes Patchelf regression breaks conda-build #4881
• Needs patchelf 0.19 in production conda-forge (not a label). defaults already has it.

Checklist - did you ...

• Add a file to the news directory (using the template) for the next release's release notes?
• Add / update necessary tests?
• Add / update outdated documentation?

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will not alter performance

✅ 5 untouched benchmarks

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_{Comparing lift-patchelf-pin (6268c03) with main (3b6a390)}