feat: add rotation management support to Secret resource

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Description of changes:
Adds RotationEnabled, RotationLambdaARN, and RotationRules fields to the
Secret spec sourced from DescribeSecret. Uses compare.is_ignored with a
custom delta that only fires when desired is non-nil, so existing secrets
are not disrupted. When RotationEnabled is explicitly set to false, the
controller calls CancelRotateSecret. When set to true, it calls
RotateSecret with the specified rules and lambda ARN.

Resolves aws-controllers-k8s/community#2713

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