src: add --enable-run-hooks for node --run pre scripts #8119

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 14s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	21s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	30m 58s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	49m 2s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	31m 32s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260526.0	25m 25s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.20	25m 44s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.6	24m 46s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	24m 53s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.2	25m 17s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	25m 36s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	21s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.6	24m 39s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.20	25m 44s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	25m 36s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	24m 53s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.2	25m 17s
Build slim tarball	1m 14s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	30m 58s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	49m 2s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	31m 32s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260526.0	25m 25s
	8h 49m 29s

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