Run tests with `ASAN_OPTIONS=verify_asan_link_order=false` (or also preload the sanitizer) when `LD_PRELOAD`'ing a library

[3v1n0]

Describe the bug
When running with address sanitizer any pre-loaded library is not supported, unless asan/ubsan libraries are also pre-loaded before anything else.

Expected behavior

This is kinda related to #13249 and it's triggered by this GLib change.

Ideally we want meson to automatically fill ASAN_OPTIONS or to ensure the correct sanitizer library is pre-loaded before anything else when a sanitizer build is configured