more explanation for my problem that everybody probably has S:

[HugoBruins]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yp-KjDg68hI&feature=youtu.be

mods: b9 aerospace
tweakscale

[ZiwKerman]

You need to disable built in auto-struts

[HugoBruins]

i had auto struts disabled sir. i also deinstaleld kerbal joint reinforcement just to test if it actually worked then.